Friday, February 08, 2008

CNY!

I have never really get excited over CNY ;P

Especially these few years.

Only change effected this year is being away from CNY work projects ;)

But new job also has to deal with a major CNY project which will be quite physically exhausting for me. That will be on 17th & 18th Feb. Dread it.

Last year had a very insulting CNY eve reunion dinner. Got to eat with the man who betrayed me. This year being no change. But the feeling is different already. Felt quite immune and anyway managed not to go over his place.

Every time when we are together, there will be accidents. This round is of no difference. On our way back to my mum's place, he hit the rear of a car and compensated $200 to the car owner. It was as conveniently as ever to push the blame to me. So a passenger that did not get to pull that handbrake or stepped on the pedal caused the problem. Again, was labelled as 'suai'. GOSH if this was the year before and before before, i would really think it was all my fault and felt like dying. But now being a more sober person, i have not let his weakling character overcome my own confident. It is always easy to push blame to others, isnt it? i do that all the time ;) He said the accident occured as i was trying to talk to him. Haaaaaa not as if he never talk while driving and without hand-free. When his friend called him, he would just pick up the hp and talked non stop. That is without regards to the fact that i am a human sitting beside and expose to his distracted driving. So how could he state fact that i caused the accident? Nevertheless i pity him; a man with so much ego. I have instead applauded my own firmness for not being affected by his insults time to time (since he came back on friday). I decided to give him $500. The sum is to offset his ang pow to my mum and bros and some of the goodies he bought. Will never want to owe him anything.

He has been declaring with pride that he has a galfriend back in China. Be it true or lie, i have reminded him that he would better not let me catch as i will take legal actions toward him. It is a matter of principle and no one should be above the law. Come to think of it, probably i would jus sell their video or pics to earn first lol.

Btw, i may be shutting this blog and start a new one ;) Or perhap keep tis to the more dark side of my life and the other with some shots of sunshine. There are just too many things for me to achieve. With him erasing from my life, i get some freedom to do things i like to. Now the challenge is only with my family and on money matters with them. Other than that, life has given me a new lease and i want to use my single days to really obtain what i want. That can be small tasks to others but they are sure precious to little me :)

Sayonara

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