(1) It is always easier to start afresh
Ytd had a little conversation with him. Dun know whr i gathered the courage to touch on a sensitive issue n w/o tears somemore!!! a changed mango ? :p
Told him we have different opinion towards our lives and marraiage.
Started by asking him if i never leave him for 6 mths the yr before, will we still be divorcing. He said 'it's a matter of time'.
He describe us a bottle of 180ML drink. But our love only reach max to 150ML and we are unable to go beyond that , so we better off parting.
I told him my views completely different. It needs us to work and go beyond 150.
Throughout our lives, we go through different stage and growth. But we did not incoporate the changes together. We did not do thing together. His need for privacy is too great. My innocence is too deep.
He said 'life is short..move on'
Told him my philosophy is different. Precisely life is short and we only live once. So we should treasure wat we have. In life, those who pass by or eventually got hook in ur life, we should treasure. But i also know his alternative view 'dun waste time'.
Conclude: it is always easier to dump the old and get start afresh. Follow up work is never easy :)
(2)Your encouragements are needed
Friends, if u happen to read my blog again... do drop some encouragement here to booast my morale and strenght for me to move on :)
This morning i got fr 1 friend in msn n very gratefuL!!!
cheers
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2 comments:
Hi Jo,
I had a friend that is in a similar situation as you. It is tough but you gotta b strong and stay strong.
Think positive! At least he still take into considerations of your welfare after he leaves. It's a new year and a new beginning for you and it is never too late. Perhaps God has other plans for you.
Do drop me a mail or chat on msn should you need to talk ya.
TC n be your cheerful self always.
Loretta
Thank you very much. Sorry took long to post ur comment cos (1) dun know how to (2) lost my blog for a while, it simply refused me in!
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